Y’all… this is one of those wedding day moments that gives me CHILLS every time. Walking down the aisle. Whether it’s you alone, with a parent, or with your partner by your side — this walk is SO much more than just a few steps to the altar. It’s a powerful, emotional, symbolic moment. So let’s talk about all the ways to make that walk yours.
Spoiler alert: walking down the aisle together is 100% a vibe.
Yep, you don’t have to follow the traditional setup. Because this is YOUR wedding. Let’s dive into what walking down the aisle together can look like — plus some other unique, non-traditional wedding processional ideas that’ll make your ceremony unforgettable.
Why Walking Down the Aisle Together is So Powerful
Okay, let’s start with the one that’s turning heads (and hearts): walking down the aisle together.
More and more couples are ditching tradition and choosing to walk in hand-in-hand. And honestly? It’s one of the most romantic things I’ve seen at weddings.
The Symbolism of Unity
Walking together isn’t just about aesthetics. It’s about entering into marriage as equals, already side by side, ready to face everything as a team. It visually says: “We’re doing this together.”
The Moment is Still Magical
You still get that emotional, cinematic moment of entering the space where you’ll exchange vows. But instead of being handed off, you’re walking in with your forever person. The looks, the tears, the music — all still there. Just… reimagined.
For the Introverts
Not everyone loves being the center of attention. Walking together can ease the nerves of having every single person turn to stare at you while you’re solo. It’s comforting to have your person right there.
When to Choose Walking Together
So when is this the right option?
Honestly… whenever you want. But here are some times it just makes perfect sense:
- You’re having an intimate elopement or micro-wedding
- You’re part of an LGBTQ+ couple (no outdated gender roles here!)
- You want your wedding to reflect equality and partnership
- You want to skip the “giving away” tradition
- You’re not close to a parent or guardian who’d walk you in
- You’re planning a non-traditional or nature-based ceremony (think forest elopements or waterfall weddings)
Need a Photographer?
If you’re planning a unique wedding like this, it’s important to have a photographer who understands your vibe. Here’s a simple pricing idea for photo services:
Wedding Photo Packages (Example):
| Package | Hours | What You Get | Price |
|---|---|---|---|
| Mini | 2 hours | Ceremony + portraits | $500 |
| Standard | 4 hours | Getting ready + ceremony + couple photos | $1000 |
| Full Day | 8 hours | Full wedding coverage + edited gallery | $2000 |
How to Walk Down the Aisle Together
Let’s talk logistics — because yes, it can be just as stunning as a traditional entrance. Here’s how to make it seamless and stylish:
1. Start From a Side Path
Instead of coming straight from the back, start your entrance from the side of your ceremony space, especially if you’re outdoors. It adds to the intimacy and surprise.
2. Use a Slow, Intentional Pace
Walk slowly and stay connected. Hold hands, glance at each other, soak in the moment. You’re entering your marriage — not rushing to catch a train.
3. Choose Music That Reflects You
The processional song should reflect your shared story. Whether it’s an instrumental of your favorite song or an emotional track you both love — make it yours.
4. Coordinate Your Look
Whether you’re both wearing dresses, suits, jumpsuits, or totally different outfits — make sure your styles complement each other visually.
Alternatives to Walking Down the Aisle Together
Okay, let’s say you’re still unsure about walking in side-by-side — or you just want to explore all the options. Here are some other unique, modern, inclusive aisle-walking ideas:
Option 1: Walk Down Solo (And Proud)
Walking alone is a bold, empowering choice.
Why it rocks:
- You’re symbolizing independence and self-love
- It puts the spotlight totally on YOU
- You can have a quiet moment before the vows to center yourself
This is a beautiful choice for people who’ve overcome a lot to get to this moment, or simply want to say: “I’m walking into this marriage as my full self.”
Option 2: Walk Down with a Pet
Yes. I said it. BRING YOUR DOG (or your cat, goat, llama… no judgment here).
If your fur baby is part of your life, let them walk with you or even carry the rings! Just be sure someone is there to wrangle them afterward. It’s cute, memorable, and so you.
Option 3: Walk In With Both Parents (or Chosen Family)
Instead of the “father gives away the bride” tradition, how about walking in with both parents, a sibling, or someone who’s been there through it all?
This honors your support system without reinforcing outdated gender roles.
Option 4: Make a Circle Ceremony with No Aisle
Who says there has to be an aisle at all?
If you’re having an elopement in the forest or on a beach, you can create a circular ceremony space with everyone around you — no walking required. You can just step into the middle together and start.
Intimate, modern, and earthy AF.
Option 5: Dance Your Way In!
If you’re not about tears and drama and you want a full-on celebration from start to finish — dance into your ceremony! This works especially well for upbeat weddings with personality-packed playlists.
How to Choose the Right Entrance for You
Here’s a quick breakdown to help you decide how to walk down the aisle:
| Your Vibe | Best Option |
|---|---|
| Romantic + Intimate | Walk together or walk solo |
| Bold + Empowered | Walk alone or with both parents |
| Fun + Playful | Dance-in or bring your pet |
| Nature-Inspired + Alternative | Circular ceremony or forest entry |
| Modern + Minimal | Side-by-side, no aisle, intentional music |
You don’t have to follow ANY rules here. Just do what feels aligned with your heart.
What to Consider Logistically
Before making a final decision, here are a few things to plan out with your photographer, planner, and venue:
Ceremony Layout
Some venues have tight spaces, while outdoor elopements give you total freedom. Adjust the plan based on where you’re getting married.
Photographer’s Angle
Chat with your photographer about where they’ll be standing and how they’ll capture the moment. A dual entrance means they may need to adjust position to get both of your expressions.
Music Cues
Make sure your DJ or musician knows the timing for this different entrance format. A build-up or emotional swell in the song works great for walking in together.
Guest Expectations
You can either surprise your guests or give them a heads-up in your program that you’ll be doing things your way. (Pro tip: a ceremony sign that says “We’re doing this our way — thanks for cheering us on!” is a super cute touch.)
Real-Life Inspiration: Couples Who Walked In Together
Here are a few of my all-time favorite moments from couples who made the bold, beautiful choice to walk down the aisle together:
Taylor + Sam
These two walked into their mountaintop ceremony hand-in-hand, with the wind blowing and their dog following behind them. Zero dry eyes, total magic.
Aliyah + Jasmine
They wore matching white jumpsuits and entered from opposite sides of the forest, meeting in the middle under hanging lanterns. Literal fairytale vibes.
Max + Ryan
These two opted for a sunrise ceremony at a lake in Oregon. They stood back-to-back, took a deep breath, then turned and walked forward together into the mist. It was cinematic as hell.
Make Your Walk Your Own
Walking down the aisle is more than just choreography. It’s the beginning of your new chapter. So whatever way you choose to make your entrance — make it meaningful, make it you.
Whether you walk together, solo, with your pup, or into a ceremony with no aisle at all — what matters most is that it reflects your love story. And trust me, your guests will feel the magic when you choose what’s authentic to you.